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How I realized I like her.

She was exceptional, in the way she smiles. It’s like all the other girls around her are wearing normal smiles in a picture and you stumble upon her droopy eyes and contoured chin and would be like “Oh! That’s a weird smile you got there, chic.” But you’d remember her anyway. I didn’t know if it was foxy, but her upper lips were kinda always as thick as her lower lips are even when she smiles, and sometimes that doesn’t work and she looks a little awkward. But she can find the angle which makes her lips cute, almost an elliptical, and queerly formed lips. She can also assure you that though she can’t smile that open-mouth smile and look natural, she’d leave you astounded with her serious face. Her face? Well I’ve seen faces of beauty. But she’s not that, actually beautiful. But she can work that one out, too. It seemed to me like she’s investigated herself at every angle, and that calculation and self-acknowledgement enthralls me. Her face doesn’t stand out in a mediocre sense – her nose’s not slim, not pointed, she doesn’t have double eyelids, her lips aren’t shaped with beautiful curves and aren’t cute-thin, but she’s bomb. Her shape isn’t all super sexy, too, but it’s sexy. She’s a girl that wouldn’t get double-looked because she’s so beautiful, but she’s white, she’s averagely tall, she’s fit, and she’s got hips and slim waist enough to make her curvy while staying too thin on the arms – and that would get double-looked. This is all about her physique. But there’s so much more about her that wouldn’t fit into words. She’s such a jewel.

Ang sakit sa mata

It's a pain to read the posts on my blog 'coz of the color contrast and deliberately, I made it as one of the challenges.

Kung sino lang talaga ang nasa trip magbasa o di kaya alam yung trick, sya lang makakabasa. ^_^

Moving On

Hey,

Today I'm gonna write you an on-a-whim post, and guess what: It's supposed to be uplifting.

I've realized that life really goes this way. So future me, thank me for slowly getting my shit together. You would be ashamed. *insert one-side-cheek smile* (forgot the term)

I'm still kinda a mess, I admit. But it's getting better. I'm doing better. I refuse to let this beat me. I've got too big of dreams that I can't afford to lose sight of things again.

As of now, the worst thing inside me that keeps on trying to devour me is my feeling of 'no emotions' - If anybody who'd read this feels the same, I'd be glad. I wouldn't be alone emotionless.

It confuses me as to when should I feel ashamed, pissed off, happy: I'm always empty and near sad. One nudge and I'll be off my ground.

In the least, it's not that grueling to live, I'm regaining memories of .my life's purpose - and to anyone who would read this,  I'm telling you, you've got your own.

Btw, I've overslept again. I think it's a facebook page's fault for feeding me with depression things - like, people with depression tend to sleep a lot. Well hell yeah, I feel depressed enough and I oversleep before reading that but it has worsen the case, thank you.

Geez, I am making my way through production - that's the only way to keep your head outta bad stuff I swear.

That's all.

With love,
A.

Yesterday's Thoughts

Love

If we don’t get hurt, we will never know that the assurance of getting loved back and getting hurt diverges to a world where things always fall into ruin. And where could we find “love” in those ruins? Nowhere.

A heart of scratches and bruises is an experienced heart. A heart that gives without looking back to seek being given, is a heart that learned what love really means.

But is it wrong to assert one’s importance? As people, that was deemed necessary for self-actualization: to be made special and loved.

What if the person you chose to love, despite the whole world telling you not to, always fails you?

I will never think about salvation. What can it do in a world where chaos are flowers and my mind a garden?

You are always a destruction: a whirlwind of thoughts I never thought would circle around my soul.

You have set me free. But who would’ve thought freedom hurts? The chains might’ve gone too fit for my soul that when you untangled these shackles, I began feeling the swelling engraving red and sore like dusk on my skin ready for another round of darkness.

I chose the dark, I fell in love with it, not at first, but eventually. I’ve seen many souls laughing in chorus about the mundane that steps the level up a little to catch their attention. I’ve thought about how wondrous it would be to partake in such splendor. But I belong where I belong, and it is not there.

Eventually, every “hi” would end with a “goodbye”. It would always be better to have a hole in your heart where you can gradually flush out the temporary.

When I love, I love with all my heart. It was never a good thing. And it sucks, that no one was able to love as I do.

I was a bell in love’s front door

That anyone who steps at the welcome mat leaves me hidden silver strings

They leave but the strings don’t

10 Things

10 Things You Must Do In Your 20’s

 1. Travel alone. Have time to be away from everything. Rediscover your purpose in life by going to places you’ve never been before. Explore new things, experience different cultures, learn new languages and meet different people. Replenish your soul with excitement and exploration. It will create many opportunities for you, and room for improvement and personal growth. Traveling alone will teach you how to become independent and confident.

 2. Look for your true self. This is the perfect time to make your passion your profession. Chase your dreams; follow where your heart wants to go. Do things that make you feel happy. Never settle for good enough, be the best version of yourself. Look for your purpose. Along the way, you will discover things that will clearly define you as a person. Embrace this. And let success flow; everything else will follow.

 3. Cut the clutter. Choose and keep the right people in your life. Associate with people who you want to be like. You’re not going to imitate them; you will learn from them, grow from them, and discover your true voice. These kinds of people will bring cheerfulness; they will motivate you and remind you that you’re on the right track. Creating a positive environment around you attracts success and it makes your vision clearer. It also creates a healing space that fosters growth that opens a door for opportunity. Everything will become lighter because positivity brings happiness. So never waste a space in your life for a negative vibe.

 4. Don’t be afraid to take risks. If you’re tired of where you are right now, reevaluate your situation. Are you just working to live and survive another day or you want something you will never get tired of doing because you love it? Learn to weigh things around you. Pursue what makes you happy. Risk, in order to see the things on the other side of the bridge. Be brave enough to quit and start anew. Don’t be afraid to stop doing the things that don’t serve your path. Risking redefines your thought processes and it optimizes opportunities. So never be afraid to risk because some of the greatest adventures in your life will come from things you never realized were possible. 

5. Balance your personal and professional life. We only have a 24 hour time period every day, so make every second count. Never waste a moment being unproductive. Master the art of time management. Have time for yourself, to have fun and enjoy things in life. Have time for your family; spend precious moments with people you love. And have time for your professional growth. You have to spend your days wisely. 

6. Be grateful. Make it a habit of saying “thank you” to people when they do something for you. You don’t know what kind of storm they are experiencing, so become their rainbow. Share your kindest smile. Appreciate them. It looks like a small effort from you, but for them, it completes their day. Never keep positivity within you, share it with everyone you meet.

7. Do something different and crazy. Sometimes, being normal is boring and redundant. You need to stretch out of your comfort zone. Jump, even if you don’t know what lies beyond. Put excitement in your life that you can look back on and laugh hard when you become old. 

8. Become someone’s happy pill. Drink a shot of happiness every day because the brain works best when you are happy. 

9. Renew your faith. Being an adult means a lot of work and stress. Sometimes, you will lose time and balance for everything, including your personal relationship with God. When things don’t go the way we want to or when all hopes are gone, everything seems to drift away. We keep on questioning and doubting God’s plans for us. Switch it over into praise. Use the situation to rebuild your relationship with Him. God wants you to communicate. The reason why He takes something away from you is because He wants you to discover greater things in store. The best way to renew your faith is to surround yourself with God. Pray a lot. 

10. Accept the fact that the world is filled with hard times. Quit complaining. Do not think about things you cannot change. Focus your attention on things you can act upon. Reward yourself when you have done something great. In order to become successful, you must embrace change and motivate yourself. Remember, people won’t love you just because you love them. Think before you commit. Don’t let your thoughts run in your tongue.



I got this somewhere. It's beautiful and a must.

Ladder

I would have to post this for future reference. As anyone who knows me on the surface can see, I'm still fucked as a little cat as of now. And that, would never be a good thing. It can be, only in disguise. But I need more than every single bit of sanity I can muster to reach for the gold on the mud I'm slithering upon.

Here, I will discuss about the breadcrumbs I'm leaving the future me-like creatures who would find themselves stuck in the physical them, to which they'd feel they do not belong to, nor to this world. (I can't be the only one.)

As for me, yeah, reconstructing the bridges I burned would help the burning my chest feels. That's the first step. And if I trip upon my bridge steps, then I'd be back to square one. This isn't easy, and I don't have even a nano second to waste. This is grueling at all 360 angles, and I could fall with just a small nudge. I don't have any emotional foundation right now, and everyone is fake. I can't trust a stage I play a protagonist at.

Fix the social ties, live as a social being, while you reclaim the throne that is your own body. Way to go, me.

I'd update this blog upon the next stages of my 'development'.

PS.
self-proclaimed relapse date: August 9, 2017

I'm crawling my way outta this predicament. I'm a bit more okay than yesterday.

Unstable

How do I explain to anyone how dump messed up I am ? That sometimes, words, mere words leave me impulsive, screwing my whole day I've worked so hard to play straight? It's just too hard to make anyone believe about what you're suffering, if it's just a mental disorder, an illusion. But what could I do? I'm trying to shake it off, I'm telling you. It's obstructive, it's delusional, it feels so powerful it'll leave you powerless, stripping you off of everything. Yeah, they might just be words, but haven't I told you that I'm still unstable and you should at least be cautious and wide conscious about what you say in front of me? That one sentence, one word can send me into an endless paranoia subway.